Video date ideas and tips

A video date is the safest and quickest way to find out whether there is a click. With a little preparation it is also simply fun.

Why video first

You see that the person is real, you hear their voice and you notice within minutes whether the conversation flows. It saves you an evening with someone you have nothing to say to.

Set it up well

Sit facing a window or a lamp, put the camera at eye level and choose a quiet spot. Dress as you would for a coffee date. Agree on a time and a length; half an hour is enough.

Ideas beyond just talking

Have a drink or cook the same dish together, show each other your street or your favourite object at home, or play a short quiz. An activity takes the pressure off the conversation.

End clearly

If it was nice, say so and suggest the next step. If not, thank the other person kindly. On SafeD8 you plan the video date inside the app, so nobody needs to share a phone number.