How to make a long-distance relationship work

Distance makes a relationship harder, not impossible. Couples who succeed usually do the same few things well.

Agree on how you stay in touch

Some people want to talk every day, others need more space. Talk about it early. A fixed moment in the week for a longer video call gives both of you something to look forward to.

Make time zones work for you

A good-morning message that arrives at bedtime is still a good-morning message. Find the hours when you are both awake and protect them.

Do things together, not only talk

Watch the same film, cook the same recipe, play a game online. Shared experiences build a bond in a way that daily status updates do not.

Have a plan

Visits to look forward to and an honest conversation about where this is going keep a long-distance relationship alive. Learn about each other's culture and, if you can, a little of each other's language.